DON'T MAKE IT PERSONAL
There comes a point in life where things are moving but not yet settled. Invoices have been sent but not paid. The house sale is progressing but buying a replacement is up in the air as I can't find anything suitable. I’m constantly scanning emails and mentally making calculations on timelines and finances. For the first time in ages, I honestly have no idea what the future holds or where I will land my next family home.
I am functioning daily, producing work and showing up, but mentally I’m exhausted. I am temporarily suspended emotionally and everything is starting to feel personal. A flippant comment from my brother sent me spiralling all weekend. A criticism online that I usually brush off wobbled my confidence.
When plans are not concrete, my mind starts searching for fault and the easiest place to direct it is inward and I am the queen of taking everything personally.
I have to remind myself that waiting for invoices to be paid does not mean I am undervalued. Waiting for a property sale to complete does not mean my life is unstable. I am fortunate to be on the property ladder. Not yet knowing my next address doesn’t mean I am lost. It means I am in transition and there is a vast difference.
In life there will always be a period where the old door hasn’t fully closed and the new one hasn’t fully opened and that space in between can feel exposed and vulnerable. Especially when you are used to being in control.
Growth rarely looks neat and tidy and things unfold in their own time. Of course the composed response is not panic. Tell that to my brain please, which likes to catastrophise everything.
The mind loves certainty. It wants dates, guarantees, assurances but strength is learning to operate confidently even when those details are still forming.
Impatience is my red flag, I can’t stand not being in control but I am reminding myself that this year is a year of repostioning.
Selling a home is not instability, it is leverage. Sending reminder invoices is not desperation, it is evidence of a business in operation with deadlines to meet. Not knowing exactly where I’ll live next is not chaos, it is the opening of choice. And choice is freedom and power. My identity is not tied to a postcode
However this uncertainty is escalating my inner panic so while I may look calm on the surface, inside I am juggling flaming chainsaws whilst blindfolded and riding a unicycle.
Mid-transition is not weakness, even though I feel fragile. It is positioning me for the next chapter where I will be mortgage free. I have to keep telling myself this will all be worth it. This space, uncertain as it feels, is actually rich with possibility. I am becoming. And when everything settles as it always does, I’ll see that this in-between season wasn’t something to survive, but something that quietly strengthened me for what’s next. And who knows what or where that will be.
In the meantime though, go easy on me.

 IS AI REPLACING JOBS?
There is a quiet panic running through the media industry right now. Every shrinking newsroom, every freelancer quietly wondering how they will pay their bills as jobs dry up. People are leaving journalism, advertising is being swallowed by apps and even the professions that once felt solid and immovable are shifting under our feet. My daughter got a first in a law degree, worked as a paralegal for a year, and was using ChatGPT to draft letters. Not because she was incapable, but because it was expected. Now she’s turned her back on the office life and is embracing a future in entertainment in Cyprus where she’s needed and valued.It’s scary how AI is replacing jobs.We’re told that in 10 years jobs will shrink significantly where where automation replaces junior, administrative or repetitive professional roles especially in clerical, sales and managerial and seasonal work.But it is not replacing people in the way headlines would have you believe. It is replacing the tasks that were never truly about judgement or creativity in the first place.For years, media professionals believed that if you could write well, sell advertising space, produce content or manage accounts, you were safe. Then platforms like Meta and TikTok allowed brands to bypass traditional channels and speak directly to their audiences. The gatekeepers loosened their grip. The budgets followed the data. Traditional advertising did not collapse overnight, but it began to erode, quietly and consistently, because apps could promise measurable results and real-time analytics in a way that glossy spreads and thirty-second slots never could.
And now AI has entered the room.However AI doesn't eliminate excellence. It eliminates average. Basic press releases and ad copy, templated proposals and reports can be made in minutes. But if your value lies in strategic thinking, narrative positioning, crisis management, understanding nuance, knowing which journalist will actually open an email and which will not, that is a different story entirely.The real shift is not technological. When everyone has access to the same tools, the advantage no longer lies in access. It lies in interpretation. Anyone can run ads through Meta. Anyone can ask ChatGPT to write a campaign. But not everyone can build trust, craft a reputation, read a cultural moment correctly or sense when a brand is about to step into dangerous territory.
In law, in media, in PR, in HR, the future will not belong to the person who drafts the fastest. It will belong to the person who thinks the sharpest. The lawyer who survives will not be the one who produces the most letters, but the one who understands leverage, negotiation and human behaviour. The media professional who thrives will not be the one who resists AI out of pride, but the one who uses it as a tool while doubling down on judgement, relationships and credibility.
We stop trying to compete with machines at speed and start competing on insight. We use AI to free up time for higher-value thinking. We specialise rather than generalise, because generic work becomes automated first. We build personal brands and authority, because people still hire people they trust. And we charge for strategy, not simply execution, because execution is becoming cheaper by the day.
The media industry is not dying. It is recalibrating. Print once felt permanent until digital proved otherwise but it is still valued. Lifestyle magazine is still thriving. Social media disrupted digital. Now AI is disrupting social.
The advantage many experienced professionals have, particularly those of us who have weathered multiple industry evolutions, is perspective. AI has access to information but it does not have lived experience or emotion. It does not understand reputational risk in the way someone who has spent decades navigating public perception does.
To stay relevant we need to adapt and learn to use the tools AI give us to enhance our creative thinking. Visibility is no longer optional, it is essential to su